Ceremony of Goodbye

Often closure is difficult to find because a person wasn’t given a proper chance to say goodbye or have a say in the ending of the relationship. It is usually much easier for the person breaking up to move on because they came to terms with the decision before even letting you know about it. But unfortunately, this closure doesn’t happen to a friend of mine. Okay! I need to share this painful thing. So here it goes.. My friend has a boyfriend for more than two years. Two years and counting, two years of loving. My friend found out, her boyfriend cheated on her. Their relationship wasn’t perfect, it’s like a roller coaster ride where couples NORMALLY experience, they aren’t a good couple, but you will feel and see the love that keeps them burning. Honestly, I expect more to my friend that she might fall for another guy, or she might be the cause of they’re break up. Yes! I was wrong. I’m sad. I’m down. I’m upset. I wasn’t expecting this thing. I really don’t. Well, I just realized that gaano man kabait ang lalaki, hindi parin sila makukuntento sa ISA. They will always look for another woman. And that’s a fact. Lucky for some who’s BF/Husband is faithful and loyal person. I can feel the pain of my friend though we always disagree on some things and hate her for being stubborn and the like. While sharing this.. I’m teary eyed. T.T

To my Friend: The time after the break up isn’t easy. You will go to different levels where there would be hard, very hard, tough, very tough day. It can be very miserable for everyone, feelings are trampled on.. Emotions are running wild and harmful acts are very often, you have to be strong. Very Very strong should I say. In love, the period of love loss and love pain doesn’t have to extend on to an eternity of WHAT IF’S. Sometimes letting it loose is a quick and self healing way to recover from the incidents of loss and pain. Always remember that God has its own plan of making things better. Just cling to him, he’s always ready to help. I’m here. We are here for you. Okay =) Cheer Up!